If I Miss, I'm Gay

If I Miss, I'm Gayrefers to a trend on Tik Tokwhere users throw something at a basket or target and intentionally miss under the caption "If I miss, I'm gay," often followed by them doing something perceivably gay. The word "gay" is sometimes replaced with another word, like"slay"or "chill" depending on the context of the joke. The trend was popularized on Tik Tok in September 2022 and gained significant virality when Madonna participated in it that October, seemingly revealing that she was a member of the LGBTQ+community to many Tik Tokers for the first time despite her fans already knowing she was bisexual for years.